Originally Posted by
Kindeyes 
Marriage is forever. I made my bed and now I have to lay in it.
OMG! Thought I was the only one that felt that way. I tell myself that to this day. My AH soon to be ex has been clean for 50 days or so, but not until I left him. And his behavior has not changed. I just said to my mother "...I made my bed..." she almost slapped me to wake me up. She said I did not make this bed, but did everything I could to make it work. The bed I have now is just a reslut of cause and effect, not having anything to do with what I did or didn't do. Hate it that she is always right. Wish I would have started listening to her a lot sooner in my life. LOL