Originally Posted by
BodkinVanHorn 
He suddenly *remembered* he HAD to pay a credit card bill at the store.
And he left me and my parents to move ALL of our stuff until his dealer could meet him HOURS LATER.
I was sooo embarrassed!
Reminds me of when AH was supposed to pick our daughter up from a party at a rollerskate rink at 830pm, and went to ACE Hardware instead-so he claims. The mom was freaking out because the place was closing, and I was freaking out because AH didn't think this was a problem and claimed he had spoke to the manager and our 10 yr old at the time could stay and skate by herself. When I knew that was impossible as the place was closing.
He also always hung with his friends in the garage- his mancave where he smoked, and increasingly chose friends who were not married. When I would come out to the garage, he would always look annoyed and embarrassed. I thought he was ashamed to be married to me. I should have been the one ashamed.