I kept the boys in healthy activities so where did I fail as a mom.
I can help them that is a mothers job.
They "need" my help
If I had left their dad when he was smoking pot this would never have happened (no way too know for sure)
How dare people try and jump my son no one messes with my kid he didn't do anything to cause that (then off I would go and have guns pulled on me it is a wonder I am alive)
He has to use because his medications for the mental illness are not working
As, for hubby
I took vows before God and others I have to stick with them.
He would never do the things other people do he is not an addict.
We, were destined to be together otherwise why did we keep meeting everywhere we went. God placed us together for a reason. (That may be true I just don't know the reason)
I have 31 years invested and the kids are grown now he owes me us time again.
He really wants to quit because he tells me he does he just doesn't know how.
If I can find the right places for him he will quit.
Once he quits and he will soon ha ha our life will be back to normal... We never had a normal he started smoking pot at age 12 and was 16 when we got together.
Why does he want to punish me I must have done something really bad.
I am the only person he has I can't abandon him. (his mom died when he was 15 and his dad was never around)
No one else has ever loved him I can't let him feel like I am like his family.
I just need to love him more.
It is MY fault he does this.
I should not have asked him to pay bills and he would not be stressed and using.
I asked for to much time with him.
I expected to much (all I wanted was for us to do things together sometimes)
I would probably use if I had to live with me .
This list could go on forever.