Welcome Etta and inahole,
I too was a wine drinker and have a public type job. I did not drink in public, only at home, as I never wanted to be seen with a drink or tipsy in public. I rarely answered my phone in the evenings, as I didn't want to slur a word or laugh too loudly. Nothing catastrophic happened due to drinking; however, nine weeks sober today, I look back and see the MANY small problems that alcohol was producing in my life that added up to something big.
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