Holy Crap Lara - your H is in a lot of doo doo. I'm shocked to my core how he's not in jail right now ---- plus he has another vehicle?!?! He's still fecking driving?!
I just don't get it... (head shake). What is the justice system where you're living "smoking"?. I hope you find the strength to cut this guy loose one day - he has no empathy for 3 people who are in critical condition because of his stupid fecking choices?!
My deceased AH would drink and drive frequently and his family also does it as well. I would fret about others he/they would harm for being so fecking selfish. I even called the police on him a few times but they couldn't find him to do a breathalyzer ....
Thankfully the only person he eventually harmed was himself... forever. And that in itself is fecking sad.
I HATE drugs so much!!! It ruins lives esp those left behind... !!