It seems to me that "normie" means healing from the damage of living with alcoholism and/or alcohol abuse...and I do think we do heal...one day at a time. Parts of me may always be a bit confused...maybe that is "normie" too.
Thanks for the post!
Today I will be a normie by not over reacting...I will think over the issue and approach it calmly.
Today I will be a "normie" by allowing my daughter to experience the consequence of her mistake...I will not take on the problem as if it is mine. I will reflect my success through my calm, loving approach toward her.