Your parents disrespected you and what's important in your life. Is that okay with you? If your parents are both drinkers, maybe you need to distance yourself from them until you feel confident in your recovery. If your parents disrespect you and laugh at your choices, do you want to spend time with them? I had exactly the same situation with my parents. I remember becoming furious during one visit when they belittled my efforts at sobriety and that was the last time we spent together for quite for some time.
In my opinion, if you want to be sober, you need to make the tough choices. It's not easy, but it's worth it, for you and for your children.