I agree with you dolly....this morning seems to have anger simmering....I think that is because no matter how many times I say there is no hope for us, that "we" are done and there is no "us", I think he thinks that if he is "a good boy" that somehow I will cave in-like English Garden said earlier. But he is finding out that there will be no caving this time. I have already hopped off the ride. I keep envisioning an immovable object. I won't budge.
About sober...sorry if I used the wrong words...I should have said that he abstained longer than I have ever seen him. About feeling sorry for him--I don't. He brought this on himself and he had way too many chances to turn it around. But, I care about him and hope for the best for him.
I just keep chanting in my head....2 more weeks, 2 more weeks, 2 more weeks....LOL