Let me share my last night with my wife.
At the time I pretty much knew it was over, but I said we should see this concert together. So we did, it was nice, strange and awkward. Since we live in a smaller town, we saw people we knew. Some who knew we were spitting up and some who didn't.
We both cried when a song was played that was about a break up. I told her we would always be friends. But I don't really feel that way now. It was a nice date, I think as of now, about 2 weeks since then, I would do it all over again it was like a last goodbye.
That is my side, I'm really not sure what she thought. It might have gave her false hope, but I think I had been clear enough that it didn't.