I'm so sorry that sounds terrible! just wanted to add most cell phones have video recorders on them or at the very least voice recorders now a days and it might not be a bad idea to start recording these rants if you van safely do so. The voice recording may be easier because you can horses turn it on and set the phone on a table nearby and not tip him off that he's being recorded.at the very least you should start writing down detailed accounts of each time he acts violently and or threaten you. I hope you can get out of there soon$