Thank you all! I spent the day on Saturday with my adult daughter and my sweet grandchild (at their house) and son. It was a very nice day. I so agree with all of you and thank you sooooo much for the grounding influence you all are willing to share.
It's funny. I really feel no hope that there will be a change and that this "sober" person will last. I am taking it all one day at the time...and if it keeps it peaceful til he leaves, then I am grateful!
Thanks everyone