Story, I've gotten those phone calls before too.
"I'm so sorry. I was just upset... I did not mean those words that I called you."
"I did not mean to steal from from you... it was the heroin honey."
"You are my best friend. I love you so very much" + puppy dog eyes except real puppies are more genuine than he ever will be.
all in a sobbing crying context.
Okay, I fell for it many times... but eventually enough is enough. I mean if you accept their apologies by going back, you're setting yourself up for the same abusive cycle. You can forgive and move on. Does not mean you need to forgive, forget and go back.
fast forward one year after we parted ways, he called me again too. Telling me that I'm the most special girl ever and that he will never forget me. To call him if I ever need a friend... Ok why wasnt he there before? No thanks! Cutting him off brought me peace and I intend to keep it that way.