Well, he is quick to say you need help, and quick to expect me to find support elsewhere, in fact right now he is mad because he has a friend and his new go stopping over to have some wine with us and I said I'm not drinking,,,, he asked why? Ugh..... Whatever he can be mad, but I'm sticking to my guns! This is so confusing! When I said I'm doin it for me, I absolutely mean it!