Originally Posted by
Miller05 
i know he hit me while on drugs or coming down...and i know that his infedelities are all part of this horrible addiction.
Excusing that behavior is a bad idea. Might help your ego now, but could cost you in the long run.
Originally Posted by
Miller05 and even if we did reconcile...i would not back down on my requirements. i want rehab, stop drinking, counseling...and full and complete transparency on all forms of communications. that is a healthy marriage to me.
the other thing i was going to ask is why wont he talk to me?
is it because he cant face me? becasue i know he is full of **** and will hold him accountable? that is what i think. i am reality. and reality with me means rehab, transparency, counseling, and stop drinking.
thoughts?
Reality acually is that you're justifiably deeply wounded and have been in denial.
The sooner you realize that you don't have control of every aspect of this situation, the better off you will be.