I rememeber telling my xah of 16 years rehab or loose your family. He ran away and abandoned his family. He even had an affair with some gross ***** for 6 months. He went running back into her arms. Tried to get me back by calling and apologizing for maybe 4 hours, and then disappeared. Wouldn't respond to texts or phone calls. It is devistating. I had a 2.5 yr old. I was a stay at home mom. He left me with NOTHING.
He won't bend on the phone because that is his life line to drugs and sex. He is for sure on drugs.
I'm so sorry for your pain. Research, read and educate yourself on addiction. Get counseling. File for divorce, and the only good thing that can come from him hitting you is that he can loose all custody (no supervised vistits even). Your beautiful child doesn't need that in their life. How scary. I'm so sorry. Hang in there. You are not alone.
