BlueGem, I think it's really important you're thinking it through before the wedding. You're giving yourself a better chance at success. Tell people whatever you need to...recovering from being sick or simply "I'm driving" should do the trick. You may be surprised at how easy it is if you don't start. It's the having "one or two" and expecting to be able to stop which is the hardest. Have a great time! If you can get online with your phone, you can bring SR right along with you for support
