Today when I saw she had texted me I got a lot of anxiety. It is almost like I don't want to be "found out." (about my detaching from her behavior)
Of course her 3 texts were all about "poor me." I just found out I have asthma she said and they gave me 2 inhalers, then my husband has torn rotator cuff injuries, my daughter needs another surgery.
3 more things. It is always something. I just wish I didn't have to ever answer her texts again.
She thinks 12 step programs are from the devil.....
I do not believe all her of illnesses anymore. Over 10 yrs ago when my late husband was dying of brain cancer she told me she had had a heart attack and I dropped everything and flew up there, and took 5 days out of my life to be there w/ her and it was a lie! My husband only lived another month after that.
I know it was my choice to go and I was advised not to go, but I did anyway.....
Last week she told me that she thought she had leukemia too cuz of her blood cell count which I know is related to all the drugs.
I am sorry, I am sounding a bit resentful now.
I will pass.
Lily