Originally Posted by Weasel1966

If I wanted to redefine something. Let's say my cat Henry. Start to treat him as a dog. Feed him dog food. Get him a bone. Try and walk him. I could not of course. He's a cat. A friendly loving fuzzy diabetic cat. That's his definition.

I realize that in my pursuit I have been trying to redefine myself as something I am not. I suppose thats acceptance. Or at the very least acknowledgment of the obvious.

I will accept my definition as an alcoholic and not try and change it other than to be a sober one.