Originally Posted by
fhl41 
I believe he has yes, i get sad at times though because she said he doesn't drink that much, which i find really hard to believe, I believe he is still on his best behaviour with her still though. She does say that he is verbally abusive with her which he wasn''t with me, however, i didn't move in with him like she did so i guess that would have came in time....Oh why do i even care!! it drives me mad...
It is very weird that she contacted you, no wonder it's been on your mind. It's even weirder that she's staying! Some people seem to think they have the magic ability to fix and rescue people but it does not work that way!
I don't know why I still care about my axbf sometimes... I am so glad I don't have to worry about which bar he is at all the time and having to have stupid parties with him and his boozing friends, he verbally abused me, that was not very much fun I can tell you. He would have been a great guy if he ever wanted to sober up. oh well!