Washbe, I know you must be torn between what your son wants and what your husband wants, but sweetie, sooner or later you need to take care of you.
Your son could have called an ambulance, he was disrespectul and cut or not, he should never expect anyone to listen when he is disrespectful. You could have kicked up your heels and actually had fun at the wedding and maybe next time you will.
I know it's hard, but maybe don't always answer the call...said with hugs and love in my heart.
And a teeny weeny nudge with the bunny slippers.
Hugs