Hi Lily, Welcome to SR!
I'm so sorry you and your family have been through so much abuse at the hands of your sister. In my opinion, it certainly does sound like your sister thrives on the drama and self-centered view typical of an active addict.
My sister is a recovering alcoholic and cocaine addict--believe me, I understand.
You are perfectly within your rights to break off contact with your sister. Perhaps a good boundary would be something like "If we are on the phone and you begin to yell at me, I will hang up". Then do so.....
Please make yourself comfortable here. Read all you can. You are among people who truly understand.