Originally Posted by
choublak 
How do you subconsciously manipulate someone though? I thought that had to be something where the person who is doing the manipulating knows exactly what they're doing.
Sometimes it becomes a subconscious trait; ingrained into their personality. They say manipulative things or cross the line in certain ways and they don't even know they are doing it.
I think it crosses the line to judge like this:
But then she follows it up with, "and you spend too much time on the computer...and you need to dress better (read: more like her)..." it's like a laundry list of flaws. I could be being rediculous though.
Whoever is doing that to you is crossing the line and should really look at themselves and worry about themselves and keep their nose out of your business. I really hate it when people judge like that. Out of some weird anger I feel brewing inside of me regarding this I would have said "come back to me when you are the flawless perfect goddess of the universe and then I will listen" oh that was bad...sorry....forget i said that
