But these conversations happen a lot, and when she gets started it's like, there will be one main thing that she's concerned about, but instead of focusing on just that, she'll bring up every. single. thing. that she either doesn't like, or that bothers her i.e., "you need to hurry up and decide what you're going to do to make some income" which I get, I get that. But then she follows it up with, "and you spend too much time on the computer...and you need to dress better (read: more like her)..." it's like a laundry list of flaws. I could be being rediculous though.
And if she believes it only matters what I think, why does she keep bringing up other crap?