DON'T DO IT!
Have you told your wife about your alcoholism? Does she know the full extent of it?
I think my husband probably misses me drinking at times. I guess he enjoyed the first few drinks I had with him, and enjoyed the 'bonding' and all that drunken fun. But he would never EVER say anything like that to me... he wouldn't jeopardize my sobriety in any way. In fact, he likes to downplay my milestones, too, just in case I get too big for my boots (my wording) and think it'll be OK to drink again.
I think you probably need to explain to your wife that a recovering alcoholic cannot drink... at all.
Congratulations on your three days... stay strong.