Why Compromise Yourself so Much?
I am even willing to forego sexual relations somewhat or come to some sort of mutual agreement. Sex is important to me but his health and sanity and our relationship are more important.
Why? What's important to you? He's not the only man in the world, my dear. Remember (and this site will say this over and over) - you need to focus on YOU, and what is important to YOU! I understand you love this man dearly, but you are slowly becoming something that is not you, and with no guarantees that things will be "OK" in the end.