Originally Posted by
coffeeclouds 
How are we defining emotional support? I am not responsible for the A's emotions. If they are adults, they can figure out rides, money, the logistics of life. That is not what I am hearing here. I am hearing that the A is asking for what they can do for themselves. Emotional support is me encouraging the A to stand on their own two feet. And not giving in when they are trying to emotionally manipulate me.
This is helpful to me. We need to encourage our son with comments such as, "You'll find an answer to this."
Thank you.