Originally Posted by Dee74

I never said you're excuses were BS

For years I found it hard to reach out...I wanted to deal with everything myself...it was my problem, mine to fix.

Only I didn't do a very good job of it until I opened up and let other people in...

of course that meant there was no turning back and change was inevitable then...but it was the right thing to do for me...everything got easier from that point

But like you say we each have our own journeys.
whatever you decide to do Maxine, you have support here

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