Dear notginger. You will recieve literature and get of alanon suggested publications.
In addition, the books that helped me the very most were the books by Melody Beattie which fourmaggie mentioned (find them used on amazon.com)
Also, do a google search for Dr. Floyd P. Garrett, MD and read his articles. You can find some of them on this page under "search" I believe. I read them over and over and over....
Stick with alanon like H***. Very good move that you are already going today!
Keep posting here, also.
daandylion