Originally Posted by
albionel 
I'm 34 and I feel like a big baby because his words were so incredibly hurtful...it really pisses me off, because he said it when no one else was around, which makes me feel like he is a coward and bully.
Sounds like your feelings are very valid to me.
How dare you comes to mind, and really how dare him.
It's all about his inability to save his brother is my guess.
He can't save him, and either can you. Only difference is, you probably are aware of that, he isn't.