He's full of crap...
...and as a guy I'm offended by his ********, "guys all lose their temper" excuse for his poor behavior. It's just an excuse and it was an ******* comment on his part.
I am 47, and I have never, ever, ever, said anything like that to any of my five sisters and, frankly, not one of my five sisters would put up with that kind of crap anyway.
He owe's you an apology without excuses. If he's always like this consider that he may not be any better for you to be around than the other brother.
What a jackass.
Cyranoak