Originally Posted by
m1k3 Maybe you can gently suggest that her friend can feel free to pick up the slack?
Note: the above post is humor and not meant to be taken seriously, well not too much.
OR, if friend isn't willing to do THAT, then perhaps friend would be so kind as to place an ad in the newspaper all in the name of helpfulness: Wanted, codie for alcoholic, provide shelter, clean up messes, etc.