Originally Posted by
tjp613 
Yeah, I think if you go to his side you are definitely getting in God's way. I'd let him sit alone for a LONG time to think about his life & choices. Of course, if the laws there are anything like the U.S., he'll be in jail for quite some time. Plenty of time to think there.
Before you see him again, why don't you run by the hospital to visit the victims and their families? That should give you some much needed perspective.
I appreciate your input -I don't need perspective to see the families in hospital - by 23 year old brother was killed by a drunk driver in a car crash....I think that's why I feel such rage too - that the person who was once someone I loved - has almost killed 3 people - innocent people like my brother - and God willing they live! Not sure yet....