Originally Posted by
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In this situation I would definitely choose NOT to enable someone with such reckless disregard for human life.
I'm sorry this happened, but you get to decide if you want to keep making it easy for him to continue down this path. Let him handle this, he's definitely earned any pain he is feeling.
I am in complete agreement with all of you - I am not a blithering idiot! But its not as simple as it seems... we live and work on a very small island. Our work crosses paths...I can't keep sending my business partner to represent me all the time - I am going to have to travel eventually.
Right now I loathe him... and wish there were no feelings at all.....I feel sick for the other families - I know how it feels - I have been 'the other family' - our brother was killed by a drunken driver!!