Originally Posted by
outonalimb 
Lara,
I can only imagine all the emotions you must be feeling right now. My heart goes out to you and my prayers up out for everyone involved...including your AH.
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
It's so difficult as I love H (he's not my husband) but I refer to him by the initials of his first name....
But I feel do deeply for the families of the others involved... I suppose distance right now is the best thing.... rage is such a pointless, negative emotion that gets noone anywhere....
I really need to be a constructive as possible when I see H again - he has asked for me - but not sure what to do really.... If he was critically injured I can honestly say I would be on a plane this minute - but he's okay.