It sounds like you are trying to create a non-alcoholic out of an alcoholic.
Alcoholism has little to do with how much or how often I drink (drank).
For me, it's drinking or abstinence and I choose abstinence. There's no point in drinking just a couple. Just no point. I was my own scientific experiment for many, many years. I'm done with that.
I go to one or two AA meetings a week. I've worked the steps and keep working them into my life. That was all I needed. Life is beautiful today.
I think there's something amiss with someone who "needs" a daily meeting. Meetings don't keep me sober. That's where I either find a sponsor or find a sponsee.
My higher power helps me out daily and can be found anywhere I am, not just in a meeting. Just my opinion.
Of course, I'm still posting daily at SR, so I apparently need some connection with others in recovery, huh? At least until work starts again, I'll stick around here!
Choose what you will, zany, it's your life.
You don't seem ready to stay stopped yet, and that's okay.
I wish you well.
Love & hugs,