crazybabie

AH, brought me the money he owed and asked if we could talk he said he has been off pain pills for 3 days and has been smoking pot that he is sick of how his life is going and he needs my help.

I told him I can't do this for him he has too, he said he realizes that and said he has no clue where to start so I got a piece of paper and wrote things he could do he was agreeable to a few for now and some he said he would try if the others did not work.

He says he is willing to read here and then maybe join, I am OK with that many lurk before joining, he is considering a therapist, he is saying no for NA, added maybe later if he needs it quitting anything is new for him he has smoked pot since age 12 or 13.

We are not talking about getting together right now or anything he says he needs my support how do I support?

My sponsor left Friday for a 3 week trip to Alaska so I can't call her.

I will not enable nor do I have any expectations.