Originally Posted by
LifeRecovery 
The Three Cs helped me in times like these.
I did not cause it, can't control it, and can't cure it. The choice to drink was on him.
I had to answer a "few" more times so I learned the lesson that no contact = no new hurts
thank you for saying this. I was mad at myself for answering, but maybe I needed to see that nothing will change..... EVER.