Sometimes we are used to chaos/drama and to sadness and what we fear is not only change but a chance to be at peace, because it feels too foreign to us.
Been NC for over 3 years, it sucks at first but my life has improved in so many ways. We are running on borrowed time, why lose our life to people that are not worth it?
I wouldn't trade my silent, peaceful nights for anything in the world. Right now I am on SR, eating my sandwich, the cat next to me using me as her pillow. No more rambling drunks calling or knocking on the door. Priceless.