Originally Posted by
Lost3000 
I think day by day, that kind of thing works. When I find it hard to deal with is when we are arguing. See, when I first wrote this post, I was in a state of total angst! Now, I'm calm and rational.
Yeah I understand. I used to scream at mine for the stupidest things. dirty dishes, or something else. lol. and now when i see them I just automatically pick them up and wash them myself because i have to remind myself that he's just a typical man and of course hes gonna be a little lazy and messy, what man isnt? lmao