Do you want to be sober or continue to hide your drinking from your family? I thought I was hiding my drinking too, but it was a lie I told myself so I didn't have to deal with the pain I was causing those around me. Your family probably already knows you drink too much and that you try to hide it from them. I used AA to get sober; however, there are lots of recovery options to chose from. Find a program of recovery that works for you, commit to it, and follow through. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Good luck.