Hi Jakey...welcome
It's probably not the answer you wanted to hear but I didn't date for a while...
Not only did I want to focus on my recovery first, but I wasn't even sure who sober me was...I wanted to know who that was before I inflicted myself on other people.
I read your other thread...you said you don't drink often but when you do you drink a lot?
I'd be avoiding alcohol on dates.
Anyone who finds you boring because you don;t drink probably isn't the best match for you anyway
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