I hope to be where you are soon, Marlene! I think your ex-AH and my AH must be twins or something because that whole texting, begging, blame, lost a job scenario is right out of my AH's play book. Last week I spent the better part of my day running all over trying to fax info that AH needed for his new job. I kept thinking if this doesn't get done he will blame me for losing the job. I've spent so long doing his bidding and taking blame it is an easy trap to fall into. You seem so strong and resolute!