Originally Posted by
RobbyRobot 
I'm not being an "emotional hypocrite" when feeling opposite of what I'm presenting.
Originally Posted by Lost3000
... do you mean acting loving when maybe you don't feel so much like it? Or smiling and hugging regardlesss when maybe you are still a little sad about the past few days? To allow for the relationship to get back on track - and I guess that behavior would then lead you to actually getting over it, back to the happy feeling you had just a few days before.
Yeah, I do mean very much what your describing, except, not so much "acting" but more like realising that
being loving is also authentic, very real and true, even though its not the most "felt" at the time its being presented emotionally. So yeah, smiling and hugging because its all true too, just not felt as much, because other (distrurbing) things are being felt concurrently, nonetheless, the love and happiness is real and heartfelt, as presented.
I'm very pleased I'm helpful, Lost3000. Thanks.