suki, thank you so much. I have heard this from others. We have helped our kids many times. It is just getting to be too much. I can not deal with anymore stress. I have told my AS to go, i will not support his habit any longer now I think I need to tell the others the same thing.
KE. sometimes I feel like they are doing the same thing as my AS. Throwing out the AS card to MAKE me feel guilty. Using the I am their mother card. My daughter is not working or has she ever really held a job for long. She is lazy and wants everyone else to do for her. I know this and still helped her many times. I think I must do to her like I am doing for my AS. I have to say no more.