I do feel alone. My husband is a good guy. He works away on a tugboat. His job is very stressful and dangerous. I feel I can not talk to him about this stuff until he gets home. It always happens when he is gone. They never do this when he is home. Most times they never even stop by or call when he is home. When I tell him what is going on he just says tell them no. It is easy for him to say because he does not get the phone calls. We have helped my daughter many times and the same **** keeps on happening. I feel like an enabler to her too!