Originally Posted by
hydrogirl 
(((shawty))) Oh, I know the feeling...been there.
What worked for me with one break up was to go on a search and destroy mission in my apartment. I took everything that he gave me, cards, letters, photos, gifts, whatever, and pitched it all out. I may sound extreme, but I didn't want to be surrounded by anything that was given to me by someone who did not treasure me. I decided to treasure myself.
i'm not to that point...yet. i did throw a beautiful james avery necklace that he had given me for christmas two years ago at him, though, all while crying that he had promised never to break my heart again. that necklace was a huge symbol of his love for me, and i definitely did NOT want to be reminded that he had changed his mind again. probably shouldn't have thrown it at him, though.
