SummertimeHigh5
"When he told me that he did not want to be put into the "friend zone" (whatever)!!!! I freaked and tried too hard to make things work and blew it."
I relate to that if I am understanding you correctly. Sometimes the meaner a guy was, and the more aloof or rejecting they were, the harder I tried to win them over. I swear that men that are "not right" seem to have radar for that weakness.
Take care