I'm sorry I didn't realize there was a friends and family section I just broke down in tears to iChat because he ended up drinking and vomiting and passing out in the bathroom my fiancé and I had to carry him to bed and I felt so powerless. And I know he needs help. Is there a way I can move it myself? Should I copy and paste or just ask a moderator? I'm sorry for the Inconvinence. Thank you for your sympathy. And I know if he doesn't want the help himself there's not much we can do...I'm just hopin there's a small thread I can grasp at and tug to pull him back up.