Lizatola- thanks for the input, these are my thoughts exactly. Amazingly digestive problems hadn't occurred to me until you mentioned your gallbladder & your dentists liver problem. All I can do is make the suggestion, it's up to him to go to the Dr. He has other health issues to take care of as well. I can make suggestions, but its out of my control.
Thumper- you are so spot on with everything. I am definitely going to need to keep coming back and reading this post over the next few months. Thank you.
I was able to sit with him and talk to him today. We talked both about his future with school & work and about us. What will happen Aug 1 is still up in the air, but he knows where I am coming from and understands my reasons for choosing that date. He seems to be willing to move out w/out a fight, which is another load off my back.