Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
This is what happened to me yesterday. First thing in the morning someone told me how concerned they were about me because I was not bouncing back, hugged me long and sincerely, and told me they really cared about me. I cried all effing day.
I understand this: my grandmother hugged me hard the other day and held on for longer than usual and whispered in my ear that she loves me dearly and wants what's best for me. This happened after I shared with her what was going on in my marriage and what AH has put us through this past year. She didn't give advice but she gave me her love and that nearly sent me over the edge!